Whether we should stay in or leave a relationship is one ofthe most consequential and painful decisions we are ever likelyto confront.What makes the issue so hard is that there are no fixed rulesfor judgement. How can we tell whether a relationship is 'goodenough' or plain wrong? How do we draw the line betweenjustified longing and naivety? Does someone 'better' actuallyexist? Could one's partner change, perhaps with therapy,or should one assume that who they are now is who theywill always be?All these questions typically haunt our minds as we weighup whether to stay or go. With no axe to grind or ideology topromote, Stay or Leave walks us gently through our options,opening our minds to perspectives we might not have considered.This book aims to take the reader towards a time, presently hardto imagine, when the choice will no longer feel so agonising.Using its lessons, we can understand ourselves deeply, considerour options, minimise our regrets and find the way ahead.